Believe it or not, cyber bullies are running rampant throughout the web. And as kids become computer and cell phone users at a much younger age, it’s important to keep them safe. Cyber bullying is defined as  “when the Internet, cell phones or other devices are used to send or post text or images intended to hurt or embarrass another person” by the National Crime Prevention Council.

In 2004, Safe.org conducted a survey of 1500 students grades 4-8 which produced the following results:

• 42% of kids have been bullied while online. 1 in 4 have had it happen more than once.
• 35% of kids have been threatened online. Nearly 1 in 5 have had it happen more than once.
• 21% of kids have received mean or threatening e-mail or other messages.
• 58% of kids admit someone has said mean or hurtful things to them online. More than 4 out of 10 say it has happened more than once.
• 53% of kids admit having said something mean or hurtful to another person online. More than 1 in 3 have done it more than once.
• 58% have not told their parents or an adult about something mean or hurtful that happened to them online.

Teach your kids to stop cyber bullying by:

• Encouraging them to tell a trusted person (parent, friend or teacher) about the incident.
• Avoiding any communication with someone who is bullying them online. If they are being contacted via email, keep copies as they may be needed for evidence.
• Never agreeing to meet the bully…ever.
• Calling the police if they are threatened with harm.

The internet is great place for sharing, learning and playing. By teaching your kids about cyber bullies you’re giving them the best chance to avoid being a target.